updated 11-19-2014

Transgender Day of Remembrance 2014

No one should be subjected to violence simply because of their gender identity or expression. No one should be denied the basic rights that enable their safety and security.  No one should consider taking their own life to escape harassment and bullying.  Please join with us on this day to remember our departed friends, loved ones, and community members.

The annual Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) memorializes individuals who have died throughout the world in the previous year because of anti-transgender hatred. Each November, the worldwide transgender community turns its attention to family, friends and loved ones lost to violence and prejudice. A tradition inspired by the Allston, MA vigil for slain transsexual Rita Hester in 1998, this day has become the worldwide rallying point for a community long under siege.

The Boston Transgender Day of Remembrance needs sponsors.  Help empower our dedicated volunteers to make this moving and important event happen.  After expenses, all proceeds benefit the Transgender Emergency Fund and the Transgender Clinic at Boston Health Care for the Homeless Program.  As a sponsor, you help our community’s neediest, whether it’s a bus ticket to get someone to shelter or the cost of food or a doctor’s visit.  We also accept in-kind contributions.

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2014 Boston Transgender Day of Remembrance


2014 Boston Transgender Day of Remembrance

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Salem Transgender Day of Remembrance 

Wednesday, November 19, 6:30 to 8:30 PM
St. Peter’s Church, 24 St. Peter Street, Salem
more info

Worcester Transgender Day of Remembrance Memorial Service

Sunday, November 23 at 3:00pm
Worcester Public Library
more info

Please join us to honor the live of those we have lost to violence, suicide, discrimination, and stigma.

Event History:

In late 1998, Boston’s LGBT community recoiled in horror at the discovery of the latest victim of transphobic violence. Rita Hester, a popular figure in the local rock ‘n roll scene, who also happened to be a transsexual, had been found brutally stabbed to death in her Brighton apartment. Like so many killings of gay and transgender persons, the victim was subjected to enough brutality to kill her many times over.A local community of queer activists, rockers, family, friends and allies — over 250 — held a speak-out and candlelight vigil in Rita’s honor, forming a human stream of light winding its way through Rita’s old Allston stomping grounds.

In November 1999, a memorial vigil was held in San Francisco; the following year Boston and a few other cities joined in, and this year hundreds of observances will be held in dozens of countries.

More on Rita Hester: Rita’s Story (TransGriot) – Remembering Rita Hester (Edge Boston/Ethan Jacobs)

More on the Allston vigil and media coverage: Rita Hester’s Murder and the Language of Respect (Sojourner/Nancy Nangeroni)

Boston’s transgender community remembers local victims Chanelle Pickett, Debra Forte, Monique Thomas, Georgette Hart, Denise Pugliesi, Monique Rogers, Lisa Daniels, Rita Hester, and too many more, mostly uncounted and unnoticed by all but their friends and family.


Massachusetts Trans Victims

International Transgender Day of Remembrance

Trans Murder Monitoring Project